Dyspareunia is painful sexual intercourse, due to medical or psychological causes. The term is used almost exclusively in women, although the problem may occur in men. The causes are often reversible, even when long-standing, but self-perpetuating pain is a factor after the original cause has been removed. The missionary position is the most common position for sexual intercourse in humans The cowgirl sex position is a good position for kissing, caressing, and embracing of the paramour The Doggy position is thus named because canines as well as most other mammals use this position. ...

Dyspareunia is considered to be primarily a physical, rather than an emotional, problem until proven otherwise. In most instances of dyspareunia, there is an original physical cause. Extreme forms, in which the woman's pelvic floor musculature contracts involuntarily, is termed vaginismus. In medicine, vaginismus is a condition where the muscles at the entrance to vagina contract, preventing successful sexual intercourse. ...

Symptoms

When pain occurs, the woman may be distracted from feeling pleasure and excitement. Both vaginal lubrication and vaginal dilation decrease. When the vagina is dry and undilated, penile thrusting is painful. Even after the original source of pain (a healing episiotomy, for example) has disappeared, a woman may feel pain simply because she expects pain. In brief, dyspareunia can be classified by the time elapsed since the woman first felt it: Medio-lateral episiotomy as baby crowns. ...

• During the first 2 weeks or so, dyspareunia caused by penile insertion or movement of the penis in the vagina or by deep penetration is often due to disease or injury deep within the pelvis.
• After the first 2 weeks or so, the original cause of dyspareunia may still exist with the woman still experiencing the resultant pain. Or it may have disappeared, but the woman has anticipatory pain associated with a dry, tight vagina.

Causes

Numerous medical causes of dyspareunia exist, ranging from infections (candidiasis, trichomoniasis, urinary tract infections), tumors, xerosis (dryness, especially after the menopause) and LSEA. Dyspareunia may result from female genital mutilation, when the introitus has become too small for normal penetration (often worsened by scarring). An infection is the detrimental colonization of a host organism by a foreign species. ... Trichomoniasis, sometimes referred to as trich or the ping pong disease, is a common sexually transmitted disease that affects 2 to 3 million Americans yearly. ... A urinary tract infection is an infection of the urinary tract. ... See the article about cancer for the main article about malignant tumors. ... Menopause (also known as the Change of life or climacteric) is a stage of the human female reproductive cycle that occurs as the ovaries stop producing estrogen, causing the reproductive system to gradually shut down. ... Lichen sclerosus et atrophicus (LSA) is a rare skin disease. ... Female circumcision (including excision) loosely refers to a number of procedures performed on the female genitalia and which are generally of a cultural, rather than medical, nature. ...

Treatment

Dyspareunia is treated by the taking following steps:

• Carefully taking a history.
• Carefully examining the pelvis to duplicate as closely as possible the discomfort and to identify a site or source of the pelvic pain.
• Clearly explaining to the patient what has happened, including identifying the sites and causes of pain.
• Removing the source of pain when possible.
• Prescribing very large amounts of water-soluble sexual or surgical lubricant during intercourse. Discourage petroleum jelly. Moisturizing skin lotion may be recommended as an alternative lubricant, unless the patient is using a condom or other latex product. Lubricant should be liberally applied (2 tablespoons full) to both the penis and vulva or introitus. A folded bath towel under the woman's hips helps prevent spillage on bedclothes.
• Instructing the woman to take the penis in her hand and control insertion herself rather than letting the man do it.
• Encouraging the couple to add pleasant, sexually exciting experiences to their regular interactions, such as bathing together (in which the primary goal is not cleanliness), mutual caressing without intercourse, and using sexual books and pictures. Such activities tend to increase both natural lubrication and vaginal dilation, both of which decrease friction and pain.
• Recommending a change in coital position to one admitting less penetration for women who have pain on deep penetration because of pelvic injury or disease:
  • Maximum penile penetration is achieved when the woman lies on her back with her pelvis rolled up off the bed, compressing her thighs tightly against her chest with her calves over the man's shoulders. Minimal penetration occurs when the woman lies on her back with her legs extended flat on the bed and close together while her partner's legs straddle hers.
  • If no vaginal penetration is tolerable, the couple may substitute interfemoral intercourse, in which the woman lies with her legs straight and her ankles locked (crossed). A triangular space between the upper thighs and vulva permits stimulation of both vulva and penis.

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Source

• The original text for this article is taken from a public domain CDC document PDF).