An in joke is a joke whose humour is clear only to those people who are in a group that has some prior knowledge (not known by the whole population) that makes the joke humorous. Also called an inside joke.
This group of people could be, for example:
a nuclear family or (parts of) an extended family
just a few people who work together
people of the same vocation or profession
residents of a particular town or region
viewers of a particular television series or cult movie
readers of a particular book or series of books
users of the same computer or computer software
a group of friends
practitioners of a particular craft, art, or science
In jokes sometimes appear in film and television. Such jokes may be visual (for example, a movie theatre marquee shown in the background of a scene might display the title of one of the film director's other works), or delivered in dialogue. In-jokes can also take the form of homages to other films or television series.
Examples
Typos introduced by the typo fairy: Professional editors and writers
Story ideas coming from a mail-order business in Schenectady, New York: Science fiction authors
The Wilhelm scream, an in joke among movie sound technicians
A joke is a short story or short series of words spoken or communicated with the intent of being laughed at or found humorous by the listener or reader.
Jokes are performed either in a staged situation in front of an audience, or informally for the entertainment of participants and onlookers.
When a technically-good joke is referred changing it with paraphrase, it is not laughable anymore; this is because the paraphrase, changing some term or moving it within the sentence, breaks the joke mechanism (its vividness, brevity and rhythm), and its power and effectiveness are lost.