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Spanking (or smacking, whacking, etc.) is a traditional form of corporal punishment, applied on the buttocks. Corporal punishment is the deliberate infliction of pain intended as correction or punishment, (corporal means of, relating to, or affecting the body). ...
What and how
Definitions Spanking (not any beating), by today's definition, consists of striking the buttocks repeatedly, usually as a corporal punishment, with either an open hand or various implements including a belt or strap, various types of whips (see flagellation) such as martinet and tawse (traditional in France resp. Scotland), switch or other form of rod, paddle (the US favorite), some curious devices as produced for US masonic lodge initiations (such as the electric so-called spanker, and trickster 'paddling machines'), or still various 'household' objects (see pervertible) such as a slipper (common in Commonwealth domestic discipline, also said when other footwear is used) or the hairbrush. The buttocks are the two masses of muscle (gluteus maximus, sometimes abbreviated to glute) and fat covering the posterior aspect of the human (primate) pelvis. ...
Corporal punishment is the deliberate infliction of pain intended as correction or punishment, (corporal means of, relating to, or affecting the body). ...
A human hand typically has four fingers and a thumb The hand (med. ...
A belt A belt is a flexible band, made of either leather or a type of cloth, worn around the waist. ...
A simple, small martinet. ...
A TAWSE is a typically Scottish implement for corporal punishment, that was often used for educational discipline in stead of the English cane. ...
Holed paddle designed for spanking. ...
Spanker may refer to several things: A disciplinarian (often an educator) who spanks, i. ...
Pervertible (frequently misspelled pervertable) is a term originally coined by David Stein to describe ordinary non-sexual objects, especially everyday household objects, that can be used sexually, particularly in BDSM play such as spanking (and thus also outside the BDSM scene). ...
A hairbrush is a brush for brushing, tidying, and detangling human hair. ...
There are many alternative terms, often linked with an implement, but also sometimes used more generally (such as belting, booting, whipping) or with terms for a stroke, such as swat (hence swatting), lick (hence licking), while there are still other terms for hits (e.g. blow, stroke; cut refer to the effect) - nearly all those terms can of course also apply to beatings on other parts of the body, and even though a term as hiding or tanning suggests administering on the bare these can also be used more generally. Next there are descriptive terms for spanking using a synonym of buttocks and a generic term for (corporal) punishment, such as posterior chastisement, stern discipline, sometimes specifying the degree of nakedness of the spankee, as in panties-down, bare-arse, or bare-bottom punishment. North American English is a collective term to describe the varieties of the English language that are spoken in the United States and Canada. ...
Commonwealth English is intended as a collective term for the perceived standard English language used in the Commonwealth of Nations1, applying in theory to Australian English, British English, Caribbean English, Canadian English, Hiberno-English (Irish English)2, Hong Kong English3, Indian English (includes Pakistani English), New Zealand English, and South...
Caning is corporal punishment with a cane, generally on the buttocks, palm or the soles of the feet. ...
Birching is corporal punishment with a birch rod, typically a spanking given on the delinquents buttocks, alternatively on the back and/or over the shoulders. ...
Similar in usage to a shoe, a slipper is an indoors version along the same vein. ...
Erotic spanking often goes hand in hand with other fetishes, such as for erotic clothes or sexual humiliation. ...
Human buttocks The buttocks (often called butt in colloquial American speech and arse in British speech) are rounded portions of the anatomy located on the posterior of the pelvic region of the great apes, including humans. ...
- Several languages use words that directly indicate the buttocks as the anatomical target zone, either plainly as the French fesséé (from fesse = buttock) or somewhat ironical, such as the Dutch billenkoek (buttocks + cake).
- Sometimes there is another specific term for a spanking on the seat of the trousers, as the Dutch pak voor de broek ('load (of swats) for -i.e. on- the pantaloons'). On the other hand expressions for a bad beating -not necessarily only for a spanking- can precisely refer to the preliminary baring, as 'a dressing down' and the Dutch verbs afranselen ('take off the (back)pack') and aftuigen ('unharnass', i.e. divest).
- Similarly there can be analogous words for spankers, as the Dutch bilslager ('buttock beater') and the French (Frère) Fesseur ('(brother) spanker'), both referring to a cleric, especially in the Jesuit order, specifically charged with the professional administration of spankings on the (typically bared) buttocks of naughty pupils in reputedly strict catholic schools; the clergy seems to have had a real reputation as bodily chastizers (there was a tradition of 'mortification' of the flesh, including self-flagellation, not only as penance), for in Paris's St.Lazaire prison the rod was administered on the bare buttocks of criminals by a member of the Lazarist order referred to as the Père fouettard ('whipping father') as allegedly happened to the writer Beaumarchais.
Beaumarchais Pierre-Augustin Caron de Beaumarchais (January 24, 1732 - May 18, 1799) was, among other accomplishments, a writer and librettist. ...
Scope of punitive use
Domestic model Spankings are administered in particular to children by their educators (mostly parent or guardian and school staff) but also, especially in the past, to other persons considered as legal minors (sometimes illegally stil treated as such), such as - wives (by their husbands) and women in general (though girls are less often spanked in traditions where boys are, or at least are less often on the bare bottom)
- slaves and servants (especially domestics, not by coincidence also called (house)boy or maid; the British Lord Chief Justice declared their corporal punishment, like children, indisputably justified in 1795).
- However the practice has been adopted elsewhere, often copied from domestic discipline, as in fraternites and sororities and sports and other teams (though now nearly only as 'play' in hazing, rarely as actual coercive sanction) and other initiation context, as with recruits (in military, police and some other professions).
The Glenbrook North High School hazing incident concerned many people worldwide Hazing is often ritualistic harassment, abuse, or humiliation with requirements to perform meaningless tasks, sometimes as a way of initiation into a social group. ...
Judicial model Although is non-erotic fiction corporal punishment for adults is usally shown or said to be administered above the waist, in most cultures and legal systems it was as least as common to administer most forms of judicial and prison beatings on the buttocks, i.e. as a spanking. For obvious practical reasons adults are rarely spanked over knee or lap, rather bending or bound over some object or construction (closely resembling the child's exposure, without the skin contact that is often undesirable or even indecent for the official spanker), in fewer cases standing or hanging (as usual for punishment above the waist) as against a wall or whipping post.
The very parallel with child discipline is part of the deliberate use of public humiliation (see that article) as part of punishments, hence the condemned is (or was, as in Korea [[1]]) often bared, or only covered for modesty, little protection against the instrument, as still usual under sharia, while prodominantly Chinese Singapore (and even Malaysia) canes the bare butt. Public humiliation was often used by local communities to punish minor and petty criminals before the age of large, modern prisons (imprisonment was long unusual as a punishment, rather a method of coercion). ...
- In fact such (and other) judicial corporal punishment is making a comeback in a suprising number of post-colonial, non-islamic countries, including the [cat o' nine tails| cat] in various Antillean Commonwealth nations.
- Furthermore there is a wave of reviviving or beefing up of (re)legalized traditional justice, as by tribal chief's courts, and their customary punishments not seldom include spanking, sometimes even carried out by the regular police force.
- Even where corporal punishment remains illegal, or is very restricted, it rather often is a common weapon for so-called vigilante justice, sometimes tolerated by the authorities (as in parts of South Africa), sometimes practiced by rebels (as in Nepal), often remarkably popular with the general public or a large section where official 'modern' western-style justice seems unable to stem crime.
- In addition spanking may still be employed spontaneously on the spot, as these Bolivian buss drivers using a belt on striker breaking colleagues [[2]] on the streats
Position In its most common usage as a means of domestic corporal disciplining, spanking usually refers to a child lying, stomach down, across the educator's lap - misleadingly referred to as taking a child 'over the knee' (OTK), though literally that is also possible- and the parent, teacher... repeatedly swatting the child's backside.
It is generally believed that this is the safest manner in which to spank since striking a standing child could cause back injury. Spanking advocates argue that the buttocks are the safest place to administer corporal punishment since it produces a sharp stinging pain but injury is unlikely; indeed even the terrible judicial cane in, say, Singapore is applied right there, with protective padding just in case the back, especially the kidneys, get accidentally hit.
- However there are alternative positions, mainly used for adults (rather too big and/or heavy to put over lap or knee, so the spanker may have a harder time to hit with full force, especially lacking space for a run; also the phyiscal contact with the spankee, who if male often gets (semi-)erect as an involuntary bodily reflex, may be considered unpleasent and/or indecent) but also for more grave and/or formal discipline, even of minors, using an implement.
One option is to have the spankee standing, usually against a wall, tree, pole etcetera. While this means the buttocks are not raised or tensed, which reduces the impact of the hits, and thus the intended pain, severe blows may hurt the spine as it is not free of the body weight as in resting positions; leaning can largely relediate this, especially if the support has a slight inclination.
If the spankee is made to bend over from his standing position, the painful and humiliating exposure is improved, but the spine risk remains. Especially when bending so deep as to (be be able to) grab the ankles or toech the toes, maximizing exposure even beyond the OTK level, forceful blows may well make the spankee loose balance and fall, again an uncontroled injury risk.
A spankee lying down, on the contrary, is safest from injury, and the least exposed. As a patient well beneath him is unpractical for the spanker, except if the implement is quite long and flexible as a whip, the spankee is often lying on a rather high surface, such as on a table.
Still another position is hanging from a beam etcetera, normally tied down, often by the wrists. Again the spine is safe, the posterior exposure reduced, but here the weight on the arms is a discomfort, increasingly painful with duration, in fact also used as a corporal punishment in itself (here accessory), the wrists may be cut by the caughs or ropes. A variation is hanging upside down, tied by the ankles; similar in effect for spanking, except the legs now carry the weight, rather devised for a falaka (beating on the foot soles). A Falaka is a Persian instrument of corporal punishment used to immobilize torture victims who would then have the soles of their feet beaten with rods. ...
- An alternative method is to have the spankee (adult or minor) bending over an object. This is rarely done for a hand spanking, but often for serious discipline using an implement, as it frees the hand(s) of the spanker to wield it with greater force, even take a run.
As long as it is strong, big and stable enough to hold the spankee and his weight, almost anything can be used as a pervertible, though a smooth surface is preferable to avoid scaving injuries. In the informal (e.g. domestic) context, often furniture is used, such as a sofa, a chair, a table, a work bench; however the ritual character of a spanking often leads to a firm preference for a fixed spot and object.
A spankee is said to be horsed, past participle of the verb to horse (to mount), when either positioned over a punishment horse (to bend over and possibly be tied to during the administration of severe corporal punishment, mainly flagellation), to the thus firmly exposed backside; or rather, and thus the expression is used absolutely, hanging by the arms from the neck and over the back of another person (e.g. a classmate) who thus acts as such a horse, often with the part of the backside that is to receive the beating wholly of semi-divested (e.g. bare bum for a traditional school birching, as illustrated [[3]]) Corporal punishment is the deliberate infliction of pain intended as correction or punishment, (corporal means of, relating to, or affecting the body). ...
Procedure Some child specialists say that if a parent must administer a spanking it shouldn't be done in anger (indeed discipline must be rational and consistent, not emotional satisfaction)- and only as a last resort when other forms of discipline have failed. For a spanking to be educational it certainly must be perceived as logical and just: the spankee must know what exactly it is for, the severity fitting the 'crime,' preferably according to previous warnings; and the threat should be systematically carried out, not whimsically, nor the severity altered without justification. Especially with young children, it should follow quickly upon being caught, and some warn against consecutive comfort such as hugging as that might confuse the child, maybe even lead it to think that the beating (and the crime leading to it) earned it the affection. Preceding the spanking with an explanation to the child of exactly why the spanking will happen--or in the case of older children, having the child explain this reason to the parent--is highly recommended to guarantee that the child understands what the misdeed was.
Spanking is generally considered corrective punishment, without intention of permanent injury; however, such intentions do not always have their desired result. There are questions over what level of pain is appropriate until it crosses the threshold into abuse. Up until the mid 20th century it was perfectly acceptable in most communities for a spanking to cause a child to cry in pain throughout and have trouble sitting down afterward, even leaving stripes or bruises for days, sometimes even lasting scars. Today some (including courts in some countries) consider even mere redness of the skin abusive, though others would call it effective discipline.
- Spankings may be delivered over clothing, over the undergarments only, or upon the bare buttocks in increasing order of intended pain (though tight trousers can make a blunt implement, as a cane, feel even worse), and potential humiliation; the latter is greatly increased by witnesses, such as the household, the class, or even a school assembly.
The removal of the clothing by the spanker may be seen as humiliating as the child is made to experience being undressed by someone other than oneself. It also procures a feeling of helplessness in that the child is no longer in control of the situation. (See also List of types of clothing and Clothing terminology) Humans often wear articles of clothing (also known as dress, garments or attire) on the body (for the alternative, see nudity). ...
A pair of mens briefs Undergarments, also called underwear, lingerie (undergarments for women), or sometimes intimate clothing, are clothes worn next to the skin, usually under other clothes. ...
For the display of bare skin, as in bare-arse, see Nudity. ...
According to the International Society for the Study of Pain, there are two different terms: pain and nociception. ...
Humiliation is literally the act of being made humble, or reduced in standing or prestige. ...
Many educators in modern-day Western societies consider avoidable humiliation inappropriate. Others consider the humiliation of exposing one's bare buttocks a legitimate or even essential part of the punishment, as the desired psychological effect is to deter, more than inflicting pain as such. The term Western world or the West can have multiple meanings depending on its context. ...
As a rule the humiliation resulting from a punishment diminishes as it is used more frequently: suffering the same fate as (nearly) all one's peers is far less embarrassing then being (nearly) the only one to be made--say--to bend over, trousers down.
Furthermore the deterring effect of pain can be lessened our even outweighed by macho pride in 'taking it like a man', as attested by the documented pleas of British Royal Navy captains to have corporal punishment under regulations prescribed to be publicly administered on the 'bare stern' and with another instrument then used on the bare backs of adult sailors, because they believed discipline was badly served as cocky boys considered a 'man's punishment' a virile badge of honor, worth the physical pain.
Controversy Spanking - and corporal punishment in general - is a hotly debated social issue in many countries. Questions exist as to whether children should be spanked (see the sections below), whether it is an effective method of discipline (and if so how it is best done, see above)), and whether or at what point it constitutes child abuse.
The argument for spanking Those who accept spanking often frame the issue as a matter of parental rights, stating that parents have the right to raise their children in the way they consider most appropriate. They also hold there is little evidence that moderate spanking is harmful. Further, many believe that discipline problems among children have recently increased, and partially attribute the increase to the decline of both parental authority and the use of spanking. Proponents of spanking also argue that moderate spanking is simple and effective, especially compared to non-spanking disciplines proposed by both academic psychologists and parents which may rely upon complicated or unrealistic methods that are often not implemented successfully.
Another argument used by proponents of spanking is that proper and effective spankings cause only temporary pain and no damage. It has been claimed that when parents and children are engaged in a prolonged struggle for authority, the anger and bitterness that results can cause an emotional estrangement that far outweighs any possible negative effects from moderate spankings.
Some advocates for spanking come from a behaviorist point of view, and argue that spanking is a form of operant conditioning, whereby the child associates a certain behaviour with the physical pain and/or humiliation caused by spanking. Since a child's learning process is believed to be less complex than that of an adult, they claim that children are more likely to be influenced by such a conditioning. Behaviorism (or behaviourism) is an approach to psychology based on the proposition that behavior is interesting and worthy of scientific research. ...
Operant conditioning, so named by psychologist B. F. Skinner, is the modification of behavior (the actions of animals) brought about by the consequences that follow upon the occurrence of the behavior. ...
B. F. Skinner Burrhus Frederic Skinner (March 20, 1904 – August 18, 1990) was an American psychologist and author. ...
Additionally, there is a widespread and deep skepticism among pro-spankers of all the arguments against spanking, and a general feeling that the practice of spanking recalcitrant children has proven its worth over a period of many centuries. They believe that the bias against spanking is arbitrary and an improper application of egalitarian principles to what they claim is an inherently unequal social relationship.
Many advocates of spanking also point out that it is sanctioned in parts of the Bible, and therefore an acceptable punishment from a Judeo-Christian moral or religious point of view.
Arguments against spanking Anti-spanking advocates make a number of arguments against spanking, on a number of grounds: chiefly that spanking is abusive, that it is ineffective, and that it teaches children that physical violence is an acceptable way to deal with other people ("might makes right"). It is also possible that this may contribute to physical abuse in cases of bullying at school and physical abuse on siblings in family battles that occur between the children. Many cases of bullying at school has been linked to physical abuse cases. Violence is the causing of, or acting with the intent to cause, injury to people or animals. ...
Opponents of spanking note that what is considered chastisement for a child would be considered assault when carried out on an adult. For example, it is now considered domestic violence for a man to physically chastise his wife or for a woman to physically chastise her husband in many nations. Some hold that, in time, the act of spanking a child will be regarded in the same way: indeed, in some nations, this is already the case. (See below.) Domestic violence, by barest definition, is violence within a home. ...
The boundary between spanking and abuse is difficult for even traditionalists to define. Two commonly accepted guides are that the parent doing the spanking must not feel anger at the child or satisfaction at the act of spanking, and that the spanking must not leave any marks or injury. Opponents suggest that both of these may be rationalizations, or a slippery slope. However, it doesn't seem to be possible for the parent to avoid showing anger or for the child to believe that the parent is not angry at them, as it is reasonable to assume someone is angry when they are hitting you. Anger is a term for the emotional aspect of aggression, as a basic aspect of the stress response in animals whereby a perceived aggravating stimulus provokes a counterresponse which is likewise aggravating and threatening of violence. ...
In psychology, rationalization is the process of constructing a logical justification for a decision that was originally arrived at through a different mental process. ...
In the contexts of debate or of rhetoric, the phrase slippery slope, also appearing as the thin end of the wedge or the camels nose, refers both to an argument about the likelihood of one event given another, and to a fallacy about the inevitability of one event given...
Opponents also hold that spanking is ineffective and that other forms of discipline are more successful at teaching a child to behave properly. Also, unlike taking away a child's favorite toy, spanking is permanent and cannot be reversed if it is determined that it was not actually warranted. Spanking may lead, it is argued, to psychological damage and even possible PTS syndrome-related effects due to prolonged fear, feelings of mistrust and being un-loved, alike with bullying at school or other forms of abuse. Discipline is any training intended to produce a specific character or pattern of behaviour, especially training that produces moral or mental development in a particular direction. ...
Opponents also claim that spanking teaches children that violence is an appropriate way to treat one who offends. Some consider that spanking, as with clear-cut forms of physical abuse, may perpetuate a "cycle of violence" which contributes to violent behavior in the child as an adult. Children learn by example, and those subjected to the deliberate infliction of physical pain "to teach them a lesson" will, the argument goes, learn that this is an appropriate way to treat others who have wronged them. According to the International Society for the Study of Pain, there are two different terms: pain and nociception. ...
There is a significant risk in regards to trust of a parent. If children feel that they are being threatened by this form of chastisement, it is likely that they may have difficulty believing that the parents are there to protect them because of the claim "I would never hurt you" has been violated. This may impair their ability to follow their parents or do what they advise and to listen to them.
There are possible physical risks involved which have not been proven. Mainly these risks concern the physical effects of hitting someone, especially when implements such as paddles are used. The buttocks are a sensitive area and are close to the kidneys or spine. Hitting the wrong area may cause harm to these organs.
Additionally, risks may occur when the child resists its punishment and tries to get away in an angry or other emotional state. This may result in accidental injuries such as falling down flights of stairs and running out into traffic, tripping up over things laid out on the floor, and even possibly hitting the parents back causing a possible reactions that results in them being further punished in similar and more dangerous ways. In such cases, they may begin to fight dangerously, and the result is most likely to be serious injuries on the younger opponent.
For children with afflictions such as epilepsy, asthma, un-diagnosed medical conditions such as heart rhythm disorder ("arrythmias") a spanking may aggrevate their condition. It is known that epileptic patients that are exposed to stress can be more likely to convulse for instance. Anything that produces physical stress on the body can do harm.
Alternatives to spanking Opponents of spanking state that there are numerous methods of non-violent child discipline which they think are at least as effective as spanking, and without the negative side-effects that they attribute to spanking; see that article for details. Non-violent child discipline - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia /**/ @import /skins-1. ...
Minimal use of spanking Despite the intensity of the controversy over spanking, positions between the two extremes are also common. Many parents believe that spanking is not inherently abusive and can sometimes be an effective form of discipline, but also believe that it should usually be avoided. Some, for instance, use spanking only when a child does something dangerous and it is critical that an immediate, lasting impression must be made. Others point out that individual differences in temperament have a great effect on the way children respond to discipline, and criticize both extreme positions on spanking as taking a "one size fits all" approach. They argue that spanking may be the most effective form of discipline for some children, but that it should only be used on those particular children who respond well to spanking and do not respond to alternative methods of discipline. In psychology, temperament is the general nature of an individuals personality, such as introversion or extraversion, it derives from the theory of the humours. ...
Other criticisms and questions about spanking Some people opposing spanking have speculated on the links between eroticism and the spanking of children (see also erotic spanking). They regard the spanking of children as a form of pedophilic sexual abuse, and also claim that childhood spanking may lead to the development of paraphiliac behavior in later life. This however has never been proven. Additionally, many people who enjoy erotic spanking claim to have never received a spanking as a child. Erotic spanking often goes hand in hand with other fetishes, such as for erotic clothes or sexual humiliation. ...
// Sexual abuse in general Sexual abuse is a form of abuse that is made by means of the sexual behavior between an victim(s) and offender(s). ...
Paraphilia (in Greek para παÏά = besides and -philia φιλία = love) is a mental health term recently used to indicate sexual arousal in response to sexual objects or situations which may interfere with the capacity for reciprocal affectionate sexual activity. ...
Erotic spanking often goes hand in hand with other fetishes, such as for erotic clothes or sexual humiliation. ...
The legal situation Corporal punishment of children in school is illegal in many western countries; it remains legal in roughly half of the U.S. states, although it is commonly practised only in the South. In each of these states, it is up to each school district to determine whether corporal punishment will be used, in what situations will it be applied, and the manner in which it is given – typically by a paddle (punishment). There are states where school officials have lost their jobs for spanking students. ...
Holed paddle designed for spanking. ...
In the UK the Children Bill was passed in 2004. One attempt to make spanking illegal in England and Wales did not pass when a majority of 424 to 75 Members of Parliament voted against the bill [4]. A House of Lords amendment, however, made it illegal to leave any visible marks. 2004 is a leap year starting on Thursday of the Gregorian calendar. ...
A Member of Parliament, or MP, is a representative elected by the voters of an electoral district to a parliament; in the Westminster system, specifically to the lower house. ...
This article is about the British House of Lords. ...
Spanking of children within families is illegal in some countries (for example, Sweden, Finland, Denmark, Norway, Austria, Germany, Italy, Cyprus, Croatia, Israel and Latvia). Similar initiatives in the U.S. have repeatedly failed. Parental rights groups have formed since the 1990s to prevent spanking from being criminalized.
Canada has tightened its laws as of early 2004, and the laws now say that no infant or teen may be spanked.
Non-punitive spankings As spanking, combining physical discipline and buttocks, always aroused attention, it is no wonder that it entered spheres of life distinct from punishment. Apart from the erotic and from fraternity/sorority type initiations, which have their origin in educational (domestic of boot camp) types of discipline, these include recreation and folklore, as in:
Playful enactment Child's play often imitates real life, especially featuring part of daily life, even the most unpleasant.
Thus it has been recorded by a captain in the Royal Navy that boys on board often enacted the beatings they were subjected to in reality, both the 'day to day' caning and the truly painful and humiliating public administration of a flogging with the boy's pussy (lighter version of the cat o' nine tails) talking turns in the actual position on deck, sometimes including the lowering of the trousers (but using a cane for lack of a cat)! The Cat O Nine Tails is a type of multi-tailed whip that originated as a tool of corporal punishment from the British navy. ...
Birthday spanking This is a curious custom in certain circles, to allow a number of others (e.g., father at home; teammates in a club) to administer a spanking to the bottom of the birthday boy or girl), as an annual rite of passage and probably a matter of bonding - the same procedure is also used as an initiation or part of it, e.g. during hazing. A rite of passage is a ritual that marks a change in a persons social or sexual status. ...
In large groups this may well take the form of a spanking tunnel, which is a double row of spankers (a characteristic of running the gauntlet) the spankee has to run through, or crawl on hands and knees, the butt (sometimes bared) exposed to hand slaps or even to implements such as paddles. The FUSTUARIUM (an abstraction from the Latin fustis, a branch or rod) was a Roman military form of execution by cludgeling, which was copied by later armies. ...
In either case it is usually kept mild, more horseplay than punishment.
Spanking booth This attraction at carnivals etcetera is a disciplinarian variation of the kissing booth, where the volunteer(s) (sometimes rather assigned, e.g. pledges as part of hazing) must earn the donations (either for charity or the funds of the organizing society) by enduring swats, e.g. with a paddle, usually bending over and/or in riduculous and/or exposing costume. The rules may or not prevent an actual painful 'punishment' of the innocent bottom.
See also Erotic spanking often goes hand in hand with other fetishes, such as for erotic clothes or sexual humiliation. ...
Corporal punishment is the deliberate infliction of pain intended as correction or punishment, (corporal means of, relating to, or affecting the body). ...
Spanking Therapy is a controversial and somewhat new theory that suggests that some young people and adults have an emotional need for physical discipline (spanking) on a regular basis. ...
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